Am I Really Saved?

Am I Really Saved?

As Christian women, it's not uncommon to quietly wrestle with the question: "Am I truly saved?" In a world full of opinions and expectations—even within the church—it’s easy to feel unsure. Some say you must dress a certain way, speak a certain way, or follow a checklist of “Christian” behavior. But salvation, according to the Bible, isn’t about ticking boxes or looking the part. It’s about faith.

Let’s go back to what the Word of God actually says.

Salvation Comes by Faith, Not Works

The Bible is clear:

"That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved."
—Romans 10:9 (NKJV)

Salvation begins with belief. It’s not about how “good” we are or whether we have it all together. It’s about turning to Jesus in faith—confessing our sins and trusting in Him completely. We are saved by grace through faith, not by our own works (Ephesians 2:8–9).

So if you’ve confessed your sins, believed in Jesus, and received Him as Lord—you are saved.

It’s Not About Appearances

The world (and sometimes even church culture) may try to add requirements: “Don’t wear this,” “Don’t go there,” “Don’t talk to them.” But those aren’t the conditions for salvation. Jesus didn’t say, “Fix your wardrobe first,” or “Clean yourself up before you come.” He simply said:

“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
—Matthew 11:28 (NKJV)

Jesus makes it simple. He calls us to come—just as we are.

True Faith Produces Fruit

Now, does this mean we’re free to live however we want? Not at all. Salvation isn’t a license to sin—it’s the beginning of transformation.

Jesus said:

“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.”
—Luke 9:23 (NKJV)

Following Jesus means dying to our old selves daily. It’s a process—a lifelong journey of becoming more like Him. And as we walk with Him, there will be fruit—evidence of His Spirit at work in us.

“Therefore by their fruits you will know them.”
—Matthew 7:20 (NKJV)

Do you love others more than you used to? Do you hunger for God’s Word? Do you feel convicted when you sin and want to make things right? These are fruits. They don’t save you—but they do reveal a heart that’s been changed by God.

Fear and Trembling—In Awe of God

Salvation is a gift, but it’s not something we take lightly. Paul encourages believers to:

“Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.”
—Philippians 2:12 (NKJV)

This doesn’t mean living in constant fear of losing your salvation. It means honoring God with reverence—taking your walk with Him seriously and being aware of His holiness.

Salvation is secure in Christ—but a saved heart desires to live in a way that pleases Him.

Love Is the Foundation

At the core of it all is love. Jesus said the greatest commandment is:

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind.”
—Luke 10:27 (NKJV)

Loving God with every part of you—your thoughts, your decisions, your time, your energy—is the natural response to knowing you’ve been saved. You don’t do it to earn His love—you do it because of His love.

Final Thoughts: Rest in His Grace

If you’ve placed your faith in Jesus, confessed your sins, and are seeking to walk with Him—you are saved. You don’t have to live in doubt. He knows your heart. He’s not looking for perfection; He’s looking for surrender.

Let this be your confidence:

“He who believes in the Son has everlasting life.”
—John 3:36a (NKJV)

So walk in that assurance today, sister. Keep pursuing Jesus, keep picking up your cross, and keep letting His love shape your life.